My self-defence mentor had always told me that I was a great counter puncher.
If someone hit me hard, I’d hit back harder.
Over time, I realized this wasn’t just a fighting skill — it was how I could operate in life, too.
Take texting, for example.
My entire texting style depends on the other person.
If they text well — engaging, thoughtful, and present — I naturally respond the same way. If they’re dry, uninterested, or passive, they get the same energy in return.
In every interaction, I reflect what I receive.
As simple as it may sound, it is true.
If someone ever thought I was good at something in an interaction with them, it wasn’t just me — it was them, too. I merely amplified what they brought to the table.
But there’s a flip side.
I know you probably have a question and are judging me already.
What happens when I meet someone who struggles to express themselves?
Do they get the worst version of me?
Well, that’s the question I have asked myself a couple of times.
So, I give them ample amount of time to settle in. And maybe, at times, it’s worth breaking the pattern — choosing to bring energy instead of just mirroring it.
For most of it, though, I remain a counterpuncher in every sense.
And if you’ve ever felt I was great at something, remember — it was your energy, reflected right back at you.
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